THE MEN IN OUR LIVES
USA - Men's Rape Prevention Project

November 1999

Some of the work this US group did, as an example, in November, 1999: Nov. 2: A follow-up presentation at Wilson High School in DC. We spoke to approximately 20 ESL students, linking racism with rape (Speak Out has huge problems with linking racism and rape, we do not believe it is a valid connection.)

Nov. 3: Two follow-up presentations at Banneker High School in DC. Nov. 4: a presentation at Georgetown University, as part of their preparation for their Take Back the Night Event.

Nov. 5: A presentation at the New York College Consortium Project, a conference held by NY City colleges and universities. A number of different organizations have been invited to present so that the colleges and universities can decide who they want to bring to their campuses.

Nov. 9: Two workshops with students at the University of Detroit Jesuit High School.

Nov. 13: Jonathan Stillerman, Co-Director of MRPP, will be participating on a panel at the Association for Women in Development Conference in Alexandria, VA. Dean Peacock, a MRPP volunteer from South Africa who is currently working on an agenda for the nation on violence against women, will be moderating. The panel will focus on men's efforts internationally to end violence against women. Other panelists include Kumi Naidoo, who is part of the CIVITAS Organization; and Aswaldo Montoya, who has done work in Latin America to end violence against women.

Nov. 16: A presentation to a class at American University

December 1999

Dec. 1: A presentation to two hundred fraternity members at George Mason University. The program is sponsored by the Inter-Fraternity Council.

January 2000 Speaker Training

In 1999, the Men's Rape Prevention Project (MRPP) speakers have presented at over 60 area high schools, area universities, and universities outside the D.C. metro area. We usually speak to mixed gender groups, although on occasion we speak to all male. Presentations focus primarily on challenging youth -- especially male youth -- to change rape-supporting attitudes, behaviors, beliefs, and language as a means of prevention.

We have two presentations we give regularly. One is called "Rape and Male Responsibility" and is a basic introduction to why rape should be an issue for men as well as women; what the legal definitions of rape are and how we define it and why; feeling rape; and the continuum, which is an exercise exploring rape culture. The other is called "The Power of Words" and looks at how language can create an environment where rape is more likely to occur. It's divided into various parts: words as hurtful to individuals; words as hurtful to social groups; words used to describe women; concerns about confronting others using such language; useful confrontation strategies.

We have presentations we're developing: one called "Who Da Man," which looks at how masculinity contributes to rape; and others on homophobia and rape, and alcohol and rape. All presentations are very interactive, with numerous exercises.

There are regular monthly volunteer meetings that serve as a means of discussion and processing, but also as a means of creating a sense of community and just having some fun. Speakers, as MRPP volunteers, are asked to attend a minimum of six meetings a year.

The first evening and day of the training are examine rape culture in all its complexities. The last day is about what can be done to challenge rape culture, and about speaking tips, with a little bit of practice answering questions before a group.

If interested, contact Pat McGann, MRPP Volunteer Coordinator, at (202) 265-6530 or pmcgann@mrpp.org.
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