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Abortion debate eclipses a child abuse epidemic, USA Today, 20
December 2004 Abortion debate eclipses a child
abuse epidemic
By DeWayne Wickham
http://www.usatoday.com/news/opinion/editorials/2004-12-20-wickham-edit_x.htm
December 20, 2004
ORLANDO — Christmas won't come this year for 4-year-old Kai Gadison. Her
lifeless body was found a few days ago in a garbage-strewn motel room in a
rundown section of this city that for millions of children is a fun-filled
oasis.
Police have charged Kenya Hill, the girl's mother, with
aggravated child abuse and first-degree murder. Kai was killed by
blunt-force trauma to the head, according to the autopsy.
Hill is 27 and has six children. Police who went to the
motel said her oldest son, a 5-year-old boy, also had been beaten the day
Kai died. Then there is this gut-wrenching detail: The police said that
when they showed up at the scene, the boy still had the imprint of the
shoe his mother allegedly beat him with on his face and head.
Law enforcement officials said this wasn't the first
time Kai showed up on their radar screen. Two years ago, Hill and her
25-year-old husband, Nathan Gadison, pleaded no contest to charges of
beating Kai, who was a year old at the time.
Too many cases
What happened to Kai didn't generate a lot of media
attention outside of Florida — but it should have. Nearly 900,000 children
in this country were abused or neglected in 2002, the last year for which
such data are available. The vast majority of these youngsters (more than
80%) were victimized by their parents, according to the U.S. Department of
Health and Human Services' Administration for Children and Families.
Even so, when it comes to children, the great political debate in this
country is over what to do about abortion, not child abuse. Much to the
detriment of children already born, it is the ideological tug of war over
the unborn that dominates our national discourse.
Elected officials are defined by the position they take on abortion. U.S.
Supreme Court and other federal court nominees are either embraced or
harangued for the side they are expected to take on this issue from the
bench.
Largely lost in all of this national wrangling over abortion is the awful
fate that too often befalls children like Kai — and that's hard for me to
understand.
Both sides in the abortion debate ought to view as common ground the goal
of keeping troubled parents from having children, or — failing that —
helping them to cope with the stress of parenting.
Instead, the dogma of the left and right seems to get in the way of a
rational response to the nation's child abuse problem — a failing that
Frances Kissling, the president of Catholics for a Free Choice,
acknowledges.
While abortion opponents usually place a strong emphasis on
abstinence-only sex education, abortion-rights supporters are almost
exclusively focused on a woman's right to terminate a pregnancy, Kissling
says.
Bottom line: The children
"It would seem to me that both people who are pro-choice and pro-life
consider themselves to care about children," she says. But, she adds,
neither side is doing enough to reduce the level of child abuse in this
country.
That must change.
At the very least, women like Hill need parenting classes. Giving birth to
six children in quick succession without sufficient means of supporting
them is not only bad judgment, it also likely fueled the conditions that
led to her acts of child abuse.
Forty-eight percent of all pregnancies are unintended, the Alan Guttmacher
Institute, a non-profit group focused on reproductive rights, reported in
January 1998. While 47% of these "unintended pregnancies" were aborted and
13% ended in miscarriages, 40% of them produced live births.
It's safe to say that these children are born into — at best — difficult
circumstances. Does this mean that they'll suffer at the hands of their
parents? Not necessarily. But the challenges and anxiety that these
families will face often trickle down to the children. This too often
means child abuse — either emotional, physical or both.
One act of child abuse is too many. But 900,000 in a single year ought to
be viewed as a national crisis.
I don't know when or how the ongoing fight over abortion
will be resolved, but I hope both sides in that struggle will come
together to save other at-risk children from the fate Kai Gadison met.
DeWayne Wickham writes weekly for USA TODAY.
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